“Bad guy" is a fairly accurate wording of this type of man.

Actually we should identify the attributes of this "Bad guy”:

  • Definite/confident
  • Initiator
  • Has his own will
  • His job/lifestyle has something that is taboo/dangerous for most of us
  • Unattainable (pissing off girls)
  • Gives strong attention - eye contact (but not in every moment)
  • Have money (indicator of success)

Most of these attributes are that we can call “power traits”, and this makes these guys more attractive than others.

Attraction and kindness is just two things, but if you are too kind to a woman, she will feel that you are submissive/ subordinate and you do not have your own way, your own will and this suggests, that you are week.

Excitement is the key factor if you would like to attract girls to you, and these qualities help to build an image of excitement.

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Abstract

This article is a short summary about Needs from a wider perspective, trying to collect the complete list of Needs that is influencing and motivating us from day to day.

Needs

Everybody wants to find meanings in the life. To fully understand our existence we need to understand our parts that could not be influenced, or change dramatically these are our needs.

Do you remember the hierarchy of needs? (Maslow)

  1. Biological and Physiological needs (air, food, drink, sex, sleep)
  2. Safety needs (protection, limits, stability)
  3. Love needs (relationship, work group, friends)
  4. Esteem needs (status, responsibility, reputation)
  5. Self-actualization (fulfilment)

This is an easy categorization of needs, but highlights the different types and the variety. However the above categorization seems to lack some of the important needs that exist in our everyday life.

To solve this issue we can simply collect the needs that emerges in our life, without any categorization:

  1. Breath, Sleeping (need for being live)
  2. Eating, drinking (need for food)
  3. Home, safety (need for comfort zone)
  4. Family, friendship (need for community)
  5. Sexuality, having sex, procreation (need for making love)
  6. Claim for beauty (need for experience beautiful things)
  7. Moving, motion, will to act (need for change)
  8. Ecstasy (need if being in a state of intense feeling - after Csikszentmihályi)
  9. Need of attention (need for attracting attention)
  10. Curiosity, Seeking for new things, new feelings for unknown, entertainment (need to learn)
  11. Self-knowledge, spirituality, understanding life (need for faith)
  12. Helping each other, altruism

The needs foster our everyday motivation. Every need stamps from the lack of fulfillment of that specific need, that implicates to raise of the desire to satisfy that. After satisfaction, another need steps forward in order to fulfill it.

The working mechanism is so damn simple.

 

 


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